tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post8721895166575964043..comments2023-05-28T08:16:39.858-07:00Comments on Loving a pyschopath sociopath, or those with Borderline Personality Disorder traits.: Silence is Divine (Fear Will Keep Us Together)Lisa Jeanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04383781597877980824noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post-87666279716819488842013-09-04T21:16:08.708-07:002013-09-04T21:16:08.708-07:00Nice to hear from you "Survivor." I than...Nice to hear from you "Survivor." I thank you as well. I thank you for bringing me back to myself. I've been having a rough time this year. Your comment brought me back to this blog post which I reread. My own words are at this very moment helping me get to know "me" again. That's a good thing.<br /><br />Don't be too hard on yourself. You were given double images and mixed messsages from teh heartless chest you laid your head on. He played a mind and heart game with you using rules you couldn't possibly have been aware of before meeting him. Love and forgive yourself with the same love and forgiveness you gave this other person. For YOU are far more deserving and capable of recieving that love and forgiveness. Best of luck and be well. :D LisaLisa Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04383781597877980824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post-74291490991063214592013-09-04T20:15:47.904-07:002013-09-04T20:15:47.904-07:00Amazing words. Thank you. My psychopath has shaken...Amazing words. Thank you. My psychopath has shaken me to my very core, he has shown me weaknesses within myself I didn't know existed. He has belittled me to a point so low I never imagined the strong, independent, intelligent, loving, free-spirited me could sink to. I do not have the capability of inflicting such evil words and actions upon my worst enemy; yet I have the capability to tolerate it inflicted towards me numerously and of course, unwarrantedly. My heart is heavy. But not from hatred or anger towards my psychopath. I refuse to not face my own grievous fault in any situation in my life. This one is no different. What I allow, is what will continue. I am finally FURIOUS enough at myself for letting this go on - for tolerating, for accepting betrayal, disrespect, deceit, violence and cruel threats in return for my love time, energy, loyalty and affection. For letting myself be taken for granted. It is not my psychopath's fault. In fact, he warned me when the relationship first began. And I dismissed his warnings while I lay snuggled into his heartless chest. I have learnt a lot, but i am aware my knowledge is merely learned thought without its application. I must now act. It is time to pull out the courage and strength i know i have, and start a new journey in discovering me again. It is time to fall back in love with me. I can't thank you enough for the words in this blog, Lisa.<br />Love a survivor, not a statistic xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post-1281921079186684342012-08-21T12:40:43.206-07:002012-08-21T12:40:43.206-07:00You are so welcome. I apologize for not getting ba...You are so welcome. I apologize for not getting back to this sooner. I had contemplated deleting this blog because for a time, I felt like maintaining it kept me in the head space of that relationship. I wanted to completely delete it from my life and memory. I now have had enough time, space and healing that I can be of help to others without holding my own healing hostage. I would love to know how you are doing. Please send me an update. I hope you are healing and moving forward with your life. Lisa Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04383781597877980824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post-68678089556969202542012-06-15T17:47:21.653-07:002012-06-15T17:47:21.653-07:00Thank you so much for this. Just what I needed to ...Thank you so much for this. Just what I needed to get over the psychopathic snake I loved for five years.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com