tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post3624614363729163385..comments2023-05-28T08:16:39.858-07:00Comments on Loving a pyschopath sociopath, or those with Borderline Personality Disorder traits.: WithdrawalLisa Jeanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04383781597877980824noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post-3539803907269242842012-07-30T10:18:39.088-07:002012-07-30T10:18:39.088-07:00All I can tell you is that it takes time. I know t...All I can tell you is that it takes time. I know that sounds so cliche'. But, there is a reason why it's cliche'. Because it is true! I am very sorry for you suffering. If you can focus your minds attention on yourself and not how this person is making you feel that helps. What I mean by that is to learn who you are separate from this person. What makes the bond so strong is that you learn to see yourself through the other persons eyes and not your own. You have to relearn how you see yourself. Your brain chemistry has actually changed after being in this type of relationship. It's time to break up that chemical reaction and get it back to the way is should be which is healthy and focused on the goodness you are without this other person. Having a child involved does make it trickier. You'll need to learn to see yourself completely separate from this person and not see, in your minds eye, this person having any affect on you whatsoever. I wish you the best of luck. Love yourself and your child above all.Lisa Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04383781597877980824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3008977011710266959.post-71917207709188527342012-07-09T22:11:38.223-07:002012-07-09T22:11:38.223-07:00Im going thru the same exact thing as you only the...Im going thru the same exact thing as you only theres a 3 year old girl involved. If you find the answer please let me know.drdarenoreply@blogger.com